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In fact, if the woman is a betrayal of the party, people often believe that an extramarital affair of a woman more likely to be emotionally attached to extra-marital lover, right into extramarital relationships and more. People think that women, love and sex are more closely linked, so the two types of non-loyalty of the men may have different meanings, but women may be no different.

Taking these studies can be concluded that: everybody hates these two types of non-loyalty. Similar to other areas, the similarities between the sexes is greater than the difference. But, after all, there is a difference between the sexes, and women are more jealous of the feelings of attachment to partner with competitors. This model is consistent with the evolutionary point of view, but it does not prove its correctness. Other factors may also play a role, including the possibility of such a simple - it consistent with traditional gender roles - as compared with men, women are more dependent partner. In any case, not loyalty to the cause of gender is a clear case of jealousy, it is obvious, but evolutionary psychologys explanations, though sometimes controversial, but it is very interesting.

The reaction of jealousy

It may hurt, anger and fear, jealousy right way to respond, which may contribute to the development of relations may also cause damage to the relationship. Sometimes jealous people just want to hurt the way back, to acts of violence or insulting words retaliation partners, or making also makes a partner jealousy thing. In certain cases, people want to protect this relationship with a partner, but some of their own behavior but further damage to this relationship, for example, to track their partners to restrict the freedom of a partner, derogatory or threatening rivals. However, sometimes people will positively respond to jealousy, such as direct express their concerns, try to solve the problem together with a partner, or to do something to make themselves or their relationship is even worth having. For example, dress yourself, or gifts to their partners to do more housework, and so on.

Attachment types can help us determine when people are jealous of what to do. When people are jealous, the security type and not worry about the type of people who would be more calm, they will try to repair the relationship, and avoidant people who are not the case. In contrast, fear-type were more likely to pretend that no problems or pretend to themselves and do not care, in order to avoid problems or deny their own distress.

Men and women in response to the jealousy usually there will be differences, which makes heterosexuals have become more complex. Envisaged himself in such a situation: party, you get up Zaiqu Sheng drink, while your partner alone stay in the double sofa. When you walk away empty, your partner former boyfriend or girlfriend just passed by and sat a while. End of drinks you get back, just to see them gently to a kiss greetings with each other. Then how would you do? Study of envy in a few experiments, one is done: The researchers looked at the above scenario to people and measure their response tapes and found that men and women, the response is different. Women involved in the reaction of competitors is to try to improve relations with a partner. They pretend they do not mind, but his right to become a more attractive partner to work with competitors. On the contrary, men said that they will try to protect their self-esteem, they intend to go through drunken confrontation with their rivals or the threat of the other, and the pursuit of other women. Women seem to focus on maintaining existing relationships, while men are considering leaving the existing relationship, and to conquer the proud new partner to heal the trauma they caused.